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	<title>Comments on: Let Go of Fantasies and Serve Your Purpose</title>
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		<title>By: Sigrid</title>
		<link>http://www.planetsaedel.com/2008/01/21/let-go-of-fantasies-and-serve-your-purpose.php/comment-page-1#comment-38677</link>
		<dc:creator>Sigrid</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Sat, 23 Oct 2010 15:08:15 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Im not into fantasies, I usually spend my time wisely.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Im not into fantasies, I usually spend my time wisely.</p>
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		<title>By: GE PLC</title>
		<link>http://www.planetsaedel.com/2008/01/21/let-go-of-fantasies-and-serve-your-purpose.php/comment-page-1#comment-33834</link>
		<dc:creator>GE PLC</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Mon, 16 Aug 2010 13:44:46 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>I just hope you tried to talk to her way back in your college days, at least you have tried, you might end up as friends if not as lover. But I&#039;m happy that you&#039;ve realized sooner or later that you have to move on and go on with your life without her.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>I just hope you tried to talk to her way back in your college days, at least you have tried, you might end up as friends if not as lover. But I&#8217;m happy that you&#8217;ve realized sooner or later that you have to move on and go on with your life without her.</p>
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		<title>By: Free CRM</title>
		<link>http://www.planetsaedel.com/2008/01/21/let-go-of-fantasies-and-serve-your-purpose.php/comment-page-1#comment-30645</link>
		<dc:creator>Free CRM</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Fri, 14 May 2010 13:01:13 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Very interesting article. I remember when my senior mom was in her mid-40s and I was in high school. She went back to school to be a nursing assistant. She finished the course, but then ended up taking care of her aging aunt with dementia symptoms. She used all that she had learned, but in a personal way. Which goes to prove education is never wasted, even if we don&#039;t always use it the way we meant to. :)</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Very interesting article. I remember when my senior mom was in her mid-40s and I was in high school. She went back to school to be a nursing assistant. She finished the course, but then ended up taking care of her aging aunt with dementia symptoms. She used all that she had learned, but in a personal way. Which goes to prove education is never wasted, even if we don&#8217;t always use it the way we meant to. <img src='http://www.planetsaedel.com/wp-includes/images/smilies/icon_smile.gif' alt=':)' class='wp-smiley' /> </p>
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		<title>By: Raymund @ Pinoy Social Network</title>
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		<dc:creator>Raymund @ Pinoy Social Network</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Sun, 09 Aug 2009 02:26:37 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Goodness! The way you wrote this post about your infatuation with a girl is very enticing. It could have been a start of teen-age novel. You definitely have the gift. And the thing is, the story is true and you just narrated it the way it is. Fascinating...</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Goodness! The way you wrote this post about your infatuation with a girl is very enticing. It could have been a start of teen-age novel. You definitely have the gift. And the thing is, the story is true and you just narrated it the way it is. Fascinating&#8230;</p>
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		<title>By: thirdimage</title>
		<link>http://www.planetsaedel.com/2008/01/21/let-go-of-fantasies-and-serve-your-purpose.php/comment-page-1#comment-12738</link>
		<dc:creator>thirdimage</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Sun, 05 Apr 2009 09:10:34 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>My problem has always been girls fantasizing about me. If I wasn&#039;t interested in them, but gave them any sort of acknowledgment, they&#039;d nearly destroy themselves, thinking I liked them. So, I learned to be cold right up front if I wasn&#039;t interested, saving them a ton of grief.

However, a few times I&#039;ve been led on to think some girl (who I really liked) was interested in me. They&#039;d flirt with me and assure me a welcome invitation. Unfortunately, they did it just for attention, telling me about their boyfriend when I&#039;d finally open my heart up to them.

So, in this particular case, my own fantasy was cultivated and used against me. Or was I just imagining it?</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>My problem has always been girls fantasizing about me. If I wasn&#8217;t interested in them, but gave them any sort of acknowledgment, they&#8217;d nearly destroy themselves, thinking I liked them. So, I learned to be cold right up front if I wasn&#8217;t interested, saving them a ton of grief.</p>
<p>However, a few times I&#8217;ve been led on to think some girl (who I really liked) was interested in me. They&#8217;d flirt with me and assure me a welcome invitation. Unfortunately, they did it just for attention, telling me about their boyfriend when I&#8217;d finally open my heart up to them.</p>
<p>So, in this particular case, my own fantasy was cultivated and used against me. Or was I just imagining it?</p>
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		<title>By: Joy</title>
		<link>http://www.planetsaedel.com/2008/01/21/let-go-of-fantasies-and-serve-your-purpose.php/comment-page-1#comment-10073</link>
		<dc:creator>Joy</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Wed, 11 Feb 2009 01:46:02 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Well the title was too catchy that I have read your story all throughtout..... I never thought that fantasy could eventually lead to some sort of destruction.... Destruction, too morbid for a word.... Anyway, same with you, I also have fantasies but then I use them to inspire myself.... I know they are fantasies and can never be real that&#039;s what I&#039;ve always kept in mind.... Know what&#039;s important is that when you fantasize, never take it seriously use it as a tool to improve yourself and help you to become a better person...... Its sometimes nice to fantasize.... quite sure of that....</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Well the title was too catchy that I have read your story all throughtout&#8230;.. I never thought that fantasy could eventually lead to some sort of destruction&#8230;. Destruction, too morbid for a word&#8230;. Anyway, same with you, I also have fantasies but then I use them to inspire myself&#8230;. I know they are fantasies and can never be real that&#8217;s what I&#8217;ve always kept in mind&#8230;. Know what&#8217;s important is that when you fantasize, never take it seriously use it as a tool to improve yourself and help you to become a better person&#8230;&#8230; Its sometimes nice to fantasize&#8230;. quite sure of that&#8230;.</p>
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		<title>By: Bay Area Lawyer</title>
		<link>http://www.planetsaedel.com/2008/01/21/let-go-of-fantasies-and-serve-your-purpose.php/comment-page-1#comment-6169</link>
		<dc:creator>Bay Area Lawyer</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Wed, 01 Oct 2008 13:40:34 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Fantasies will get you every time. Good for you for getting a grip before it was too late. poliSci classes especially upper level classes are notorious for clicks. Great post.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Fantasies will get you every time. Good for you for getting a grip before it was too late. poliSci classes especially upper level classes are notorious for clicks. Great post.</p>
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		<title>By: Meteor Freak</title>
		<link>http://www.planetsaedel.com/2008/01/21/let-go-of-fantasies-and-serve-your-purpose.php/comment-page-1#comment-6112</link>
		<dc:creator>Meteor Freak</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Tue, 30 Sep 2008 02:36:40 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Would it have hurt to at least start a conversation with her and see if she might have been interested?  What is there to be afraid of?  The worst she could have said is no.  Sometimes you would be surprised at how a little confidence can go a long way...</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Would it have hurt to at least start a conversation with her and see if she might have been interested?  What is there to be afraid of?  The worst she could have said is no.  Sometimes you would be surprised at how a little confidence can go a long way&#8230;</p>
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		<title>By: MOin</title>
		<link>http://www.planetsaedel.com/2008/01/21/let-go-of-fantasies-and-serve-your-purpose.php/comment-page-1#comment-5774</link>
		<dc:creator>MOin</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Tue, 23 Sep 2008 08:37:03 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>yeah sometimes you waste more than enough into fantasies that your precious time pass you by and you left into them with nothing in hand. so sometimes a man should get out of fantasies and think real. i am not saying fantasies are bad because they give you power to go for the best and some times inspiration to achieve good things.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>yeah sometimes you waste more than enough into fantasies that your precious time pass you by and you left into them with nothing in hand. so sometimes a man should get out of fantasies and think real. i am not saying fantasies are bad because they give you power to go for the best and some times inspiration to achieve good things.</p>
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		<title>By: syria</title>
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		<dc:creator>syria</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Mon, 04 Aug 2008 09:14:32 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>thank u for ur lovly subject
i like  fantasies
nd always remember my own</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>thank u for ur lovly subject<br />
i like  fantasies<br />
nd always remember my own</p>
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